A classroom needs to be an honest space.
A place where mistakes can be learnt from, feelings can be shared, and opinions can be nurtured.
A few years ago, I wrote a blog about the importance of seeing teachers as human beings. Children act as mirrors to the adults around them. How can we expect them to be compassionate, diverse, forward-thinking, self-aware, emotionally literate individuals if we don’t model those traits in the first place?
I once knew of a teacher who had a pink streak in her hair over the summer. Her Headteacher asked her to remove it before term started. One pink streak. In my opinion, there was nothing offensive or unprofessional about one pink streak. That teacher was showing her children that she knew her own style and was comfortable expressing herself. But instead her locks were banished to a colour deemed more acceptable by her boss. She was straight-jacketed. Forced to conform to the traditional ideas of what is respectable, and therefore diluting the person she was.
This week, the media and many non-teachers have been outraged by Howden Junior School Headteacher Lee Hill, who decided to rejuvenate his school House names with a fresh, diverse batch of monikers, using the names of modern activists such as Malala Yousafzai and Greta Thunberg. By changing the names used for Houses at his primary school, Mr Hill has found himself accused of ‘erasing history’ and the media have whipped up a storm. One person who was particularly upset about this was Piers Morgan, who took to the airwaves on GMB to express how much the new House names of this primary school had hurt him personally. Not satisfied with criticising Mr Hill’s skills as a leader and educator, the TV personality then went on to attack Mr Hill for his appearance, citing his sleeve of tattoos as unprofessional. Here is another example of expecting teachers to live up to this robotic ideal. People have tattoos. It is a fact we cannot shield children from. Many of the children in Mr Hill’s school will grow up to have tattoos regardless of Mr Hill’s personal choices. Having a tattoo does not make a teacher any less able to do their job and it does not impact their ability to treat others with kindness, empathy and care. Morgan believes that Mr Hill’s tattoos make him an unfit role model, but I would argue that his mere presence in an educational environment is teaching children not to be judgemental about appearances, and his commitment to his job and the way he treats others would be a much firmer basis on which to assess his suitability as a role model.
By sharing honest aspects of ourselves, we are revealing that we can make human choices. We are teaching children to accept diversity and to not be judgemental of others. Is it really the end of the world if a child sees an adult with a tattoo? Or a piercing? Or a different hair colour? Does appearance matter more than that adult’s commitment to nurturing a compassionate and safe learning environment?
I’m a firm believer in an honest classroom, and that doesn’t just relate to appearances. It is important that we are honest about our emotions and experiences too.
I often refer to my time in secondary school, when I was hopeless at maths (or so I thought). Maths wasn’t my thing at all, but that was only because I thought I wasn’t very good at it. As I grew older, I ended up re-sitting a maths exam at 23 where I got a B grade. When a child tells me they ‘can’t do maths’ I always answer with ‘yet’, and then sometimes I’ll tell them my story. It is important for children to see that they won’t have all the answers yet (and in some areas of life they never will!) but perseverance is key to learning. If I was to pretend that I’d always found maths engaging and I’d sailed through my maths GCSE, what benefit would that be to the children?
On days where I’m feeling particularly sad about something, I might share that with my class. If I’m finding things tough or feeling drained, I’ll share that, just as I would if I was feeling enthusiastic and motivated. It is important for children to see a 3D image of us and to know that experiencing negative emotions is OK. They see me feeling sad, but they also see me feeling happy, so if I’m in a particularly low mood they know that it won’t last, and they can then relate that to their own experiences and feelings. By projecting this white-washed, streamlined, 2D model of ourselves we are promoting the impossible, and that is something that neither benefits the children or our own mental health.
So for those clutching their pearls over a teacher with tattoos, or a TA with a nose piercing, or a headteacher with one pink streak, consider the reasons why that person is in that job. Consider the value of an honest classroom and a generation of children who are accepting of others. And consider not judging by appearances.